NORTHERN VA FAMILY PHOTOGRAPHY: Cribb Family

the gorgeous cribb family…in their own season of change…

to say this family is in for some change would be an understatement.  they’re at a crossroads, really, as each girl is hitting a major milestone…

sarah will graduate from christopher newport university {CNU} this week and will continue on there as a fellow in the fall.  emily will graduate from NOVA {this week as well!}, moving on to virginia tech, and abbey will graduate potomac high school, entering chowan university this fall.  good gracious!!  are you kidding me?  a huge CONGRATULATIONS to these girls!  each one is so unique.  i know if i’m proud, i can’t imagine how mama feels!

ah yes, mom and dad.  how i LOVE them!  i’ve knows karen for years, and she is truly one of my favorite people to see coming my way {from anywhere!}.  she’s so incredibly kind, thoughtful, and generous.  she always has a hug…and she always smells good! :)  she is a personal wealth of information and encouragement to me as ty and i begin to navigate the college years.  and she has such a tender heart.  i know she and neil must have about a thousand different emotions running through them at any given moment right now…pride, joy, and love, which i’m sure must be coupled with tears at times.  not so much of fear or dread, but just genuinely grieving the closing of this chapter in their lives.  as i just talked about change, it seems fitting that this family would fall next here on the blog.  they really are forward-moving.  and i know the next chapter will prove just as beautiful as the last..one filled with hope and awe and wonder…

so cribb family…thank you for the true privilege of capturing this season of change for you.  the closing of one door with the opening of many others…each as distinct as your remarkable girls…

praying that each of you would find exactly what you need in our sweet jesus…may He continue to do more than than you could ask or even imagine.  i cannot wait to hear of all the new adventures…

Change… {Personal}

Change always comes bearing gifts.  ~Price Pritchett

i’ve been wanting to write for such a long time, to say THANK YOU to so many of you who offer amazing support to me and this photography adventure.  and also…to just…write.  i’ve got lots spinning in my little brain, and so much is going on in the kosa house, lots of different things on different levels.  but at the end of the day, all of these things seem to have one thing in common this season:  CHANGE.

and OH, how i despise change.  seriously.  i think it’s because we move enough, have enough change in our lives that isn’t our own doing that i just want things to stay the same.  even the furniture.  i’m pretty much thinking that’s why God gave me ty.  he likes to change things up and roll with the punches.  me?  i’d just like my world to be predictable.  is that so much to ask? :)

and now it’s april already!  what in the world??  i meant to write a ‘merry christmas’ or ‘happy new year’s’ note here on the blog.  but sooner than i liked these had passed, along with valentine’s day and right through march…

{enter spring break with easter.}

 

this past week the kosa clan of ours went on the most amazing vacation.  all without cell phones.  now, in your house, this may not mean a whole lot, but in mine, where ty carries his government blackberry and i’ve got my phone tied to business, add to that two teenage girls, it was HUGE.  and…we were ALL in.  we all lived in the moment with each other.  it was just so amazing.  and if there’s one thing that vacation reminded me of this year, it was to enjoy the moment.  right now.  it’s not coming back.  and i know i say this all the time, even as a photographer, but i sometimes just forget.  life gets busy, starts rolling along and i’m doing everything in my power just to hold my head above water…and another month passes by and i’m not even really sure where it went.  oh, don’t worry.  i could tell you what i did and where i was if i just refer to my calendar.  but i want more than that; i want to be able to say i paused.  drank in the moment.  remembered those silly things, the fun things, beautiful things, even the hard things.  because they’re what make me…me.

and i needed this sweet, gentle reminder.  to pause in the busy times, too.  because the next 4 months in this house will involve LOTS of change.  and, although i’ve come to recognize that change can be very good, it can also be very bittersweet.

so…some changes for us…

1. we will move off post at the end of the month, and, although we’re excited and it’s not too far away, we know it will just be different.  eeekkkk!!  we know it’s the right move, just having to move ourselves will be an…adventure.  {that’s the spirit!}  ty should {key word: should} retire from this army life in a couple of years, so it’s in expectation of that event that we are making some transitional changes ahead of time.  after all, as we’ve told our kiddos, we can’t live on post forever.  they WILL insist we leave. {really??}  change

2.  aubrey will graduate high school and be off to college in the fall.  and this mama ~ from time to time ~ is overwhelmed with the thought of how much i will miss the dailyness of having her live at home…

3.  noel will finish junior high and start high school.  i can hardly wait to see what she delves into as she continues to spread her wings wide open…

4.  and little man tyler will finish the 5th grade, officially being a middle school boy.  i’m sure he will smell more, grow 3 feet in a year, and require more ER trips than i’d like, but i am so looking forward to every moment…

and so…in this season of change, it’s really been laid on my heart to be intentional.  actually, it’s a word that really has resonated with me since the fall, but i think i’m only just now putting it together that it needs to apply to my life on a much more personal level.  not only do i not want to miss these moments, i want to remember them.  picking up my camera more for this family, writing out those things for which i’m incredibly thankful, speaking truth and life…

so today {in the middle of april, no less!} be encouraged.  jesus is so, so good to give us TODAY.  pause and breathe.  look around.

don’t miss it…

…be intentional

NORTHERN VA NEWBORN PHOTOGRAPHY: Welcome Madison

precious madison…

The world is as many times new as there are children in our lives.  ~Robert Brault

such a sweet, sweet time enjoying little madison on this afternoon.  i can’t help but think as i’m getting ready to send my oldest off to college this fall that they grow oh-so-fast.  don’t hurry her.  savor each day for what it is…a precious gift.

congratulations, emersons!  she’s absolutely beautiful…

NORTHERN VA WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY: The Lamperts

ahhhh, nothing like a beach wedding in key west to warm your winter…and a gorgeous couple with a wedding day story you don’t want to miss to warm your hearts…

you may remember jay & jackie from their engagement shoot we did last summer.  what an amazing couple.  and i have to say that after their wedding day, i have even more respect and regard for them {if that is even possible}.  sit back.  it’s a story…

it goes something like this…

jay & jackie decided back in the summer that a destination wedding would suit them perfectly, as they didn’t even know at that point where they would be stationed.  and jackie, being a detail-oriented planner, had every last detail {down to the 3 minute markers!} all planned out:  a cruise with the first stop in key west.  get married on key west, then finish out the week cruising.  {can i just stop and add YAY ME!}

they had about 50 friends and family join them on this adventure, and it really started out as planned.  everyone got on the ship.  rehearsal the evening before was easy.  everyone was just really excited!

the next morning, as we woke early to be the first ones off the boat, was when i found out that jay had woken up in the middle of the night and was REALLY sick.  not sea sick, but that horrid flu bug that lays you out sick.  we were told that he was, at that moment, laying on his cabin floor, trying not to get sick {AGAIN}.  he couldn’t even walk to the bathroom.  if i remember correctly, his mom did get him some meds that helped to finally hold everything together.  oh my word.  NOT fun.

in the meantime, the ship was an hour late docking because the current was so strong.  and, although we girls did make it to the hotel, we all wondered when and if jay would arrive.  i have to tell you that the trolley car driver was one of the BEST people i have ever encountered on this high stress day for jackie.  he was so encouraging and compassionate..

jay finally did arrive {with the help of a wheelchair!}, but, of course, all bets were off concerning our plans for pictures.  BUT…i do need to take a minute and tell you how awesome jay is.  when he saw me come into his hotel room where he and the guys were, he immediately tried standing and asked where i wanted him.  UMMMM….no.  all of the energy he had he was going to need to conserve just to get through the ceremony.  i did take some pictures though.  and i LOVE them.  because they really reflect the transparency of the moment.  he was sick.  no getting around it.  but he was a soldier’s soldier.  he was absolutely amazing getting through the ceremony, then sitting while we took other photos of jackie.  and getting back up to dance their first dance.  i could have cried…

…how much we do for love, huh?  it does make me smile though that really, jackie had to give up those “best laid plans.”  you always envision what your wedding day would be like, and this was definitely not it!  i think that was just as hard for her as it was for jay being sick.  but you know what?  she went with it.  and so did jay.  and that’s what i absolutely love about them.  there were these things that were completely out of their control, and {after being mad about it for a hot minute}, they realized there was nothing they could do, and they let go.

at the end of the day, the lamperts made it, of course…and have a great story to tell.  they supported each other, smiled though it, and danced despite it all…a great way to start life together if you asked me.  and jackie is truly one of the most beautiful brides i have ever seen…

jay & jackie…how humbling to be a part of this story.  your kindness and thoughtfulness of others around you touches people in ways you can’t even begin to imagine.  thank you for setting the bar high.  for loving each other best.  for giving all you have…

much love from all us kosas :)

NORTHERN VIRGINIA FAMILY PHOTOGRAPHER: Knox Family

the knox children…so absolutely beautiful!

when sachiet first contacted me about taking pictures of her children, she said she wasn’t sure if they could all make it.  curious to me until i realized that her first three were years apart from the bottom three…then it made perfect sense!  SO…i cannot begin to tell you how thrilled she was that ALL of her kiddos were going to be in the same picture together.  they all rearranged their schedules and made it.  {it’s been a while!}  and, after we met up at mt. vernon {which i LOVE}, i found out that the kids didn’t even know where they were going…mom told them they were getting their picture taken.  that’s it.  you really would never know that though, because they absolutely rocked it!

after a long drive the baby was really ready for a nap, and keeping him up was NOT optional!  :)  so we just went with it.  passed out baby and all.  LOVE it!  some seriously fun moments capturing these siblings.  but more for me that day was just seeing the utter joy that sachiet felt having all of these precious lives in the same place in order to capture these moments, and i was grateful to have been a part.

sachiet…thank you again for the privilege of sharing these memories with you.  enjoy them, friend!

NORTHERN VA ENGAGEMENT PHOTOGRAPHY: Danielle & Nathan

love in the air…with danielle & nathan!!

this was such a perfect morning, meeting up with danielle & nathan in old town.  after all, it’s where they really met and their relationship blossomed.  so, we did what they do on your saturday morning…brunch, walking around a sweet town {that i ADORE} while the shops were just waking for the day…

and while spending time with danielle and nathan, one thing was apparent:  they are absolutely head-over-heels in love.  oh my gracious!  i LOVED seeing them just interact and not be able to take their eyes off of each other.  so, so precious.  and as they count the days drawing near to their wedding, i’m sure that anticipation just grows.  what a fun story of how they came to meet and just be.  they’ve got a style and vibe all their own.  they know who they are and where they’re going.  and really, they are just vintage souls, waiting to spend the rest of their lives together…

danielle & nathan…thank you again…for brimming with love for one another, love for life, and love for jesus.  i can’t begin to tell you how excited i am for your wedding day!  :)

Huggins Family

five “huggs” that i cannot get enough of…

my journey with this family started so many years ago…when we both lived here in the DC area together for the first time.  although, it was the second time we both had been stationed here.  {i know, it’s confusing.  try and keep up!}  and, like our tours in the DC area, as i got to know kris, we realized we really lived parallel lives in SO many ways.  both had husbands who lived and breathed military life.  both have 2 girls, 1 boy, in that order.  super close in age.  both had missionary parents, and we grew up pretty similar.  both had long, curly hair.  people would confuse us all the time!  we even drove the exact same minivan back then!  so, naturally, we were twins! :)  at least, that’s our joke.  and honestly, kris really is my sister in so many ways…

so, as our lives took different directions, we still stayed connected.  not all the time or even often.  but we really could pick up and deepen any time we were together.  and for that i’m so, so very grateful.  after our family returned to this area for the third time about a year and a half ago, the huggins followed a year later.  so SUPER exciting!!

i cannot begin to tell you what a source of strength and constant encouragement kris is to me.  she loves jesus best, joe not far behind :)  and she loves their sweet kiddos to the moon and back.  and i know i can go to kris any time i need anything and she’ll be there.  to listen.  to respond.  to cry and to laugh.  and just to be my friend.  i’m just so, so thankful to be able to hug her neck during this season that we’re together again.  goodness…i love the military.  such a small world full of reunions!

joe, kris, and 3 little “huggs” {okay, 4 if you count jack} ~ y’all were amazing!!  even after the “episode” we…errr…i mean I…had with a little dog doo-doo.  thank you…for being so incredibly gracious.  much love to you all as we look for the next adventure, always just around the bend…

 

Nelson Family

the nelson family…whom i adore…

my most favorite picture from our time together was when i was laughing so hard at THEM laughing that i completely blurred it.  and many more.  because i couldn’t stop laughing with them.  {i DID finally pull it together!}  it really holds dear to me though.  and honestly just captures their pure beauty and love and joy they have.  and so, although it seems a mess, i love it :)  a great family begins with a great marriage.  thank you, john & lisa. i walked away a better person having spent the morning with you…

i know some of you may recognize lisa…she’s now published her first book which you can get a look at HERE.  we did a really fun “author” pictures about a year and a half ago {has it really been that long??}.  and really, at the time, she was exactly what i needed.  encouraging, hopeful for what was to come, affirming…all of that.  and so completely genuine.  and you know what?  *sigh*  she still fits that bill every time i see her.  she just so overflows with the love of God, you can’t help but want to be around her all the time.  and never in a “holier than thou” sort of way.  no, never.  just listening and sharing life…

and so it was with the rest of her family, too.  oh my goodness, we laughed and laughed!  and LOVED every minute.  john was HYSTERICAL…a moment i won’t soon forget when lisa called him on his “eyes darting everywhere” because i told HER where to look, but not him!  oh wow.  and their precious kiddos.  a couple of high schoolers, just as real as they get.  what fun!!  { i mean, who doesn’t love some starbucks??}

john & lisa…thank you again for allowing me in on what it looks like to be part of the nelson family.  i would do it every day if i could get away with it!  y’all keep doing what you’re doing.  following hard after God, loving each other and loving life.  sweet, sweet moments…

Strom Family

the stroms!!  such home-town people, i cannot tell you how much i love this shot of them in our village on post.  our little corner of the world.  at least til the military moves us.  neighbors that have become friends.  and fast too…that’s just the way we roll :)

i can remember the first time i laid eyes on the stroms.  they were unloading their ginormous moving truck last summer.  aubrey and i were walking to the gym, and deborah, ross, and their 3 good-looking boys were sweating like no tomorrow.  all i could think was “are you CRAZY?  i’d never do a ditty move!”  {do-it-yourself move for those of you not in the military}.  BUT…there they were, working hard.  and all together.  we said hello, and you know how you just get a sense of people right away?  yep.  i knew we were gonna be friends.  totally respectful boys, hard-working parents.  and just as generous and kind as you can get…

and it’s been so fun to get to know this family more over the last few months.  deborah is as gourmet cook {and a seamstress, too!}.  probably because she’s got a house full of boys!!  no joke.  and so we reap the benefits of this on a regular basis {often yelling “i hate you!” when she brings things like espresso creme brulee over.  or chocolate banana bread.  or tuxedo cake.  i could go on, but you get the idea.}  ross is a stand-up soldier and loves his wife and boys.  and our kiddos play together all the time.  i just can’t say enough about this family…

stroms, i’m so thankful you made your way to our neck of the woods.  we love having you as neighbors.  and more than that, as friends.  i’m praying y’all would continue to spread the love and warmth you’ve extended to our family…wherever the road continues to lead…

 

Sawyer Family

ahhhhh!!!!  the sawyer family.  could not get enough of them…

these photos remind me of why the fall is my favorite…so, so beautiful!  the leaves, the crisp air…it all passes way too fast for me!  especially when i’m already so tired of being COLD this winter…oh my…but i do love the seasons…

add to the beautiful weather a gorgeous family, and you can’t beat it.  oh.my.word.  two precious girls that have their daddy’s red hair…and a mama that has impeccable taste.  so FUN!  these girls are as different as night and day…but so, SO love each other.  just a sweet, sweet afternoon for me to spend with the sawyers.  thank you again, friends…for your time, company, and smiles…